16 July 2008, 9:45 pm
i am having marital problems & recently while surfing found out a woman name under my husband of 10 years ,list of relatives. i did a poeple search on both of them and i found under her a name change to his last name and matching addressess.they were both in each other list of relatives.this is all in new york.i suspect he was married before. however he never mentioned anything about her in all our years of marriage.but i always suspected there was a somebody before because he never loved me & our marriage was arranged back home & he married me because it was expected out of him to marry somebody from back home. but when ever i asked why he was so mean to me and who was the woman he wants to see in me,he always denied it, saying every girlfriend before me was just trash.i was the one.but he was horrible to me.now i found out she lives in medford ,ny but how do i found out they were married before.can somebody help me please. she will fit a big puzzle piece in my life if it is true. she lives in newyork states and i live in south carolina. going to the county is impossible and newyork is one of the states that does not give out info easy. i thought about calling her but i find it very hard.but would that be the right thing to do i sometime wonder.... read more